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Are You Ready for Cyber Monday? Online Shopping for Newbies

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Everyone is talking about online shopping. It’s easy and takes a lot less gas and hassle than a trip to the mall. Online shopping puts unbelievable choice right at your fingertips. Cyber Monday is now the second biggest shopping day, behind the traditional Black Friday sales, and Cyber Monday is all about shopping online.

From large department stores, such as,  which used to be mostly books, to groceries, which Amazon now carries as well, the latest designer fashions, closeout specials, and fast food delivery services, it’s all online now. You’ll find toys, computers and electronics, and auctions galore. In fact, you can find just about anything imaginable online.

It is not just about being trendy with the latest fun fad. Online shopping is a godsend to shut-ins, the elderly, disabled, busy working folks and anyone who, for whatever reason, cannot get out and spend the time to do their shopping.

In many ways, online shopping is a return to the good old days when delivery services were a given. This alone can make the difference between sending token flowers and dispatching something really different on special occasions. Your selections can be wrapped and on the road to delivery in less time than a drive to the mall.

Shopping online beats catalogue shopping as well. Online, you have incredible choices with far less time and effort than pouring through stacks of catalogues and sitting with a phone on hold only to be told that your color or size is not available. It is now easy to check availability and formerly tiresome ordering tasks can now be done in minutes with the click of a mouse.

Although gift delivery is certainly a plus on special occasions, it doesn’t stop there. Food and meal boxes are the latest thing and now grocery stores are going to online shopping in conjunction with a delivery service, or like Walmart, where you can place your grocery order online and drive up to the door to pick up your order.

For all the convenience, there is always a catch with everything. Street smarts are the rule online and off. Everyone already knows that when you go shopping, there are certain things you do and don’t do when it comes to your money and your personal security. Online that goes double.

At the Computer

In addition to a set of well-honed cyber street smarts, when shopping online you should first and foremost be comfortable with your computer. There are a few things to remember if you are new to online shopping. The first is to click the BUY button only “once.” It may take a couple minutes for the transaction to process. If you click buy twice, you will be making the same purchase twice. This is a common beginning online shopper error and there is not generally too much of an issue in clearing up the double purchase, since it is relatively common, but it can be a hassle.

The second big rule is to keep copies of everything relevant to the transaction. Print out the pages with the description and prices of the items you order. Print out your credit card receipt. Most companies will email you a copy of the receipt as well. Keep that too, and make sure it matches your online information.

As all computer users know, sometimes a glitch will derail the best-laid plans. If your printer is down or goes down when you try to get your print outs, find the “Print Screen” key on your keyboard. Press it. Then go into your word processing program and click “Paste.” You should now see a picture of what was on your screen at the time you made your purchase. Save it. This is the next best thing when a printer is not available.

Okay, you are comfortable with your computer already. All possible glitches are covered and you are ready for some serious shopping. What about those so-called cyber smarts?

Cyber Street Smarts

Smart online shoppers, just like those in the physical world, know that there are certain things you do to take care of yourself. They know to be aware of the neighborhood where they are shopping. They know to be aware of the reputations of the places where they do business. They know to watch their wallets, and first and foremost, when they are around strangers, they know to be aware of who might be scrutinizing them just a little too closely.

Know Who You are Doing Business With

Do a little research. Anyone can build a website. If you encounter an unfamiliar company where you want to shop, find out who they are. Look for an address. Be wary of any company that does not list one. An address is no guarantee, but you can use it to check references with the Better Business Bureau (BBB). Their online site at has nationwide listings.

Sometimes you may want more information than the BBB provides. In this case, use your favorite search engine, Google is mine, and try an “about search.” The difference in an “about search,” and just looking for the site, is that you already know where the site is; now you want to read some reviews and find out what people are saying about it. Generally, just putting “about” in front of the company name will get you started.

Another safeguard it to use a low limit credit card for your online purchases. That way, if anything does go awry, it isn’t that far awry. Yes, we all know about the $50 liability limit, but the low limit card can be a hassle saver online.

Depending on your bank, you may choose not to use a debit card online at all. Many debit cards do not offer the same protections against fraud as credit card companies. It is worth checking first if you are not used to shopping online.

While you are at it, be sure to check out the return policy and guarantee. Online and off, most good companies do accept returns, either by providing a cash refund or product exchange. Note, however, shipping costs are typically not refunded for online purchases.

Online Security

After you’ve found exactly what you have been looking for, checked out the seller, and their return policy; the next thing you need to do is make sure the site is secure. Secure means your personal information is encrypted in transit to the seller’s server. This prevents unauthorized (hacker) access and possible misuse of your credit information.

Examine the URL in the address bar. If the site is encrypted you should see an “s” directly after the http – like https://… Although there are some exceptions, the whole site will not generally be encrypted, but the order page for the transaction should be.

Sometimes security issues get tricky, especially with smaller businesses. Suppose that you personally know the owner, it is a solid local business, but there is no encryption system in place and they expect you to transmit your credit information online. With small businesses, this is most often a case of not knowing better, that does not, however, mean that you do not know better. In cases like this, if they are close by, shopping in person may be a better option. Otherwise, look for a phone number and call in your order. If there is no phone number, no mailing address, and no encryption, you should seriously consider whether you want to risk that transaction.

Common sense is the rule online and off. Guard your personal information, including your Social Security Number, bank account information and passwords. No reputable merchant has a need for your Social Security Number and it is not standard policy to ask for it when you buy your groceries, for instance. Requiring this for a routine purchase should send up a red flag and you should immediately take your business elsewhere.

Some online crooks will do whatever they can think of, in all kinds of official looking ways, to get your private personal information. If you call, they may personally assure you that they do indeed need your bank account and password to sell you that computer game. No way, just because it looks good, and they sound sincere, doesn’t mean that it is or they are, and you may not know there was ever a problem until you see your credit report.


Online and off, if it looks too good to be true, it probably is. Don’t let the heat of the offer lull you into abandoning your good common sense. Of course, you could miss the deal of a lifetime, and that is exactly what the unscrupulous want you to think. Likely as not, online and off – if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is.

Shopping the Internet has already changed the way we do business, but it is still a new frontier, with many of the uncertainties that go with it. The only way to really be secure online is to develop your cyber street smarts and sometimes, even that may not be enough. It will certainly level the field though, and by keeping your cyber smarts well honed, you should be able to safely shop the net.

This is an updated article by Regina Garson. It was originally published on Magic Stream.
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